Dirtiness

So when you're laying around on a Friday night in the city trying to figure out what to do, obviously the first thing that comes to mind is going out. Now this whole process involves what we like to call "pre-gaming" for countless hours and then actually going out, which in fact is usually only an hour or two. Within this hour or two, it's really your choice as to what you want to get out of it. Some people like to chose to drink lots more and just be sloppy. These people wake up the next morning and always wonder just where all that money in their wallet went. Some people go out and break a move and have a good time dancing. However, the majority of people go out with the intention of hooking up with someone. What do I usually do? Usually I go out with the intention of having some fun and dancing. In no means does that mean I am a good dancer...except I kind of am, ha...but just some good fun.

Sometimes I go out and hook up. Do I like it when I'm in the moment? Yea sure, who doesn't, unless it's a fat chick...cough, shrav...cough. All jokes aside though, when I wake up that next morning I just feel so filthy after doing it. I mean there really is no lasting satisfaction to the hook up. I don't think anyone can really say there is any lasting satisfaction. I guess only if this person turns out to be your future gf/bf, but even then, it's still kind of dirty. When someone asks you when you first met or kissed you would respond, "Yea, we met at a bar and hooked up in the dark corner." Just doesn't sound too appealing to me. Lots like to label me as a romantic. I really don't think it's being a romantic to say that the culture at college these days is just really dirty. Whatever happened to just meeting someone and taking them out on a date instead of to a club while your drunk. I guess a lot of people seemed to have lost sight of some of the good old clean fun that once was. I am a hypocrite in what I say. I sometimes fall into the drunken hook-up. However, I don't encourage it. It's really not satisfying. So, the next time you actually like someone. Ask them out on a date and get to know them before you do the other stuff. It's a lot better that way.